"I'm tired of being my relationship. I have a relationship with myself. I want to be in a relationship where there are two people involved," said K earlier today. She is also breaking up with her boyfriend. Well said. We both agreed we're sick of doing all the work, all the trying, all the effort. I wonder if our boyfriends/ex-boyfriends will be able to find stupid women to do all the work in future relationships.
On my way out of work, I heard L saying on the phone, "There's no point in being in a relationship when nobody's happy." It was as if he said it for me, but didn't. How true, and how often we forget it.